Being Honest with yourself is not letting yourself get caught up in popularity contests. When you care about winning a popularity contest, or maintaining some kind of status, you make pleasing other people more important than being true and honest to yourself.
One of the keys to happiness is not caring about popularity contests or what THEY think. THEY don’t know anything about you, so don’t put your sense of worth and control into THEIR hands.
Is is possible to be kind and honest at the same time? Good chance those willing to listen to learn will at least hear you out.
It is not enough to be kind and believe in the good. We must love more loudly. we must make inclusion thunderous. We must SPEAK UP! Silence is the enemy!